PRIVATE RELATIONSHIP INTENSIVE
Six months of clarity. One intentional day.
Love is too important to leave to chance.
Yet that’s what most do.
Not because they lack intelligence.
Not because they haven’t done the work.
It’s because most are never taught how to wisely choose the partner we’ll build our life with.
Over the past 12 years, as a Clinical Psychologist and Private Relationship Advisor, I've mentored accomplished executives, founders, physicians, attorneys, and professionals who excelled in nearly every area of life—yet quietly questioned why love remained the one exception.
The obstacles are rarely obvious.
They're usually hidden in three places.
Your Beliefs
The beliefs you hold about love, partnership, men, women, and even yourself quietly influence every romantic decision you make.
The beliefs we leave unquestioned often become the future we unconsciously create.
Until those beliefs align with the relationship you truly desire, you'll continue creating outcomes that feel painfully familiar.
Your Discernment
Many people know what they want.
Far fewer know what they genuinely need.
As a result, they mistake chemistry for compatibility, potential for partnership, and repeat patterns that quietly keep them from lasting love.
Your Standards
When standards are undefined, compromised, or unrealistic…
You say yes to the wrong relationships.
You overlook the right ones.
And years pass far more quickly than you ever imagined.
Yet it's rarely just one obstacle.
More often, it's a series of subtle beliefs, patterns, and blind spots that quietly compound over time—ultimately shaping the course of your love life.
This is why lasting change is so difficult to create alone.
And this is where our work begins.
I help accomplished, thoughtful individuals see what they cannot yet see for themselves.
Because what stands between you and the relationship you desire is often something you cannot yet recognize.
Throughout my work as both a Private Relationship Advisor and Research Psychologist, one principle has remained remarkably consistent:
Our beliefs shape our reality.
In more than 100 mental health clinical trials, I've watched participants experience measurable physical and psychological changes despite receiving no active medication.
Science continues to demonstrate that our beliefs influence what we perceive, how we respond, and ultimately, the reality we create.
Love is no different.
The beliefs you hold about what you deserve, what's possible, and who is available profoundly influence the partners you choose—and the relationships you create.
When your beliefs shift, your love life begins to shift with them.
That's the work we do together.
“I deeply wanted love but quietly feared it might never happen for me. Working with Dr. Holly helped me believe differently. Soon after, I met an incredible man—emotionally evolved, deeply aligned, and now my fiancé. Dr. Holly is a meaningful part of our story."
— Monika M., Product Manager, Google (Now happily married with two children.)
What if the wisest path forward is stepping away from the noise—and having a trusted relationship advisor help you see clearly what has felt difficult to untangle alone?
Imagine dedicating an entire day to one of the most important areas of your life—
With whom to share it.
No distractions
No second-guessing.
No more wondering whether lasting love is truly possible for you.
Just thoughtful guidance, meaningful discernment, and a deeply personalized experience around your next chapter.
You'll leave with more than clarity.
You'll leave with a new way of approaching love.
Imagine leaving with ...
Complete clarity about what's been keeping love just out of reach.
A deeper understanding of your relationship patterns and blind spots.
Greater confidence in your ability to recognize—and choose—a deeply aligned partner.
A personalized roadmap forward.
The peace that comes from knowing you no longer have to navigate this journey alone.
Perhaps Right Now…
You’ve built a meaningful, successful life—yet love still feels more complicated than it should.
Perhaps you find yourself:
• Repeating patterns despite your self-awareness
• Attracting unavailable or misaligned partners
• Questioning whether someone is truly right for you
• Recovering from heartbreak or relational disappointment
• Quietly wondering why success in life hasn’t translated into love
You don’t simply want chemistry.
You want partnership.
Depth.
Emotional safety.
A relationship aligned with the life you’ve built.
Why I Created This Private Intensive
Over the last 12 years, I’ve mentored thoughtful, accomplished men and women navigating one of life’s most important decisions—who to build a life with.
Again and again, I’ve seen extraordinary people struggle unnecessarily in love—not because they lack intelligence or insight, but because relationships require a different kind of discernment.
The right guidance can change the trajectory of your love life and dramatically shorten the path to lasting love.
And it begins with one day devoted entirely to you.
This was created for those seeking a highly personalized, deeply transformative experience—one designed to create clarity, confidence, and lasting movement in love.
Make 6 months of progress in just one day.
A PRIVATE RELATIONSHIP INTENSIVE
DESIGNED AROUND YOU
This is not a group program.
This is not surface-level coaching.
This is a deeply personalized advisory experience where you will feel seen, heard, and honored. We will spend an intentional day focused entirely on your love life, patterns, desires, and next chapter.
Hosted privately in Napa Valley, this experience is designed to create the space, clarity, and honest reflection lasting transformation often requires.
Together, we’ll uncover what has quietly stood in the way of aligned partnership—and create a wiser, clearer path forward.
You leave with:
Clarity.
Discernment.
Confidence.
And renewed belief in what is possible. .
“I learned how to say yes to the right person, listen to myself, and truly understand how I felt. I now have a terrific partner—and I wouldn’t have been the right person for this marvelous woman without the work I did with Dr. Holly. I can’t say enough about how great it was to work with her.”
— Tom S., BrokerWHAT WE MAY EXPLORE TOGETHER
Each Intensive is entirely personalized.
Depending on your needs, we may explore:
• Relationship patterns that continue repeating
• Healing from heartbreak, disappointment, or betrayal
• Clarifying what truly aligned partnership looks like
• Evaluating a current relationship or dating dynamic
• Strengthening standards, boundaries, and self-trust
• Identifying blind spots affecting your outcomes
• Rebuilding confidence and hope in love
—Sherry B., Health & Wellness Coach
“Before working with Dr. Holly, I lacked confidence and worried I would repeat the past. She helped me set boundaries, trust myself, and show up differently in love. The very next man I met is everything I had hoped for.”
YOUR PRIVATE INTENSIVE EXPERIENCE
Arrive in Napa the afternoon before your intensive and settle into a private, serene retreat setting overlooking the Napa River. Enjoy a signature massage, unwind from the demands of daily life, and allow yourself the rare luxury of spaciousness before our work begins.
The following morning, you'll savor a delicious breakfast with tranquil views before we begin a deeply personalized day devoted entirely to you and your love life.
Throughout the day, we'll move through private advisory sessions, a curated lunch, and intentional moments for reflection as we uncover what's been standing between you and the relationship you desire. Together, we'll create a clear path forward—one rooted in discernment, confidence, and aligned action.
You'll leave with greater clarity, renewed trust in yourself, and a personalized roadmap toward the deeply fulfilling partnership you seek—feeling inspired by what's possible and confident in your next steps.
Some decisions shape the next few years of your life.
This one decision shapes the rest of it.
Your experience includes:
✓ A 6 Hour Private Relationship Intensive
✓ Personalized Relationship Assessment & Strategic Guidance
✓ A Beautifully Curated Al Fresco Lunch Together
✓ Tranquil Luxury Napa Retreat Setting for Reflection
✓ Relaxing Signature Massage in-room or riverside spa cabana
✓ Personalized Relationship Roadmap
✓ Tailored Resources & Recommendations
Thoughtfully curated to feel spacious, restorative, and deeply supportive.
THIS EXPERIENCE IS FOR YOU IF…
• You are highly accomplished and still deeply desire meaningful partnership
• You value thoughtful guidance and emotional depth
• You are self-reflective and ready to stop repeating patterns
• You want greater clarity, confidence, and discernment in love
Meet Dr. Holly
Dr. Holly Battey is a nationally recognized Psychologist and Private Relationship Advisor who mentors highly accomplished, self-aware individuals to create deeply aligned, meaningful partnership.
With a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology and more than 15 years of experience, she has guided founders, executives, leaders, diplomats and discerning professionals through one of life’s most important decisions—who to build a life with.
Known for her thoughtful discernment, warmth, and ability to uncover what quietly stands in the way of lasting love, Dr. Holly created the Single to Soulmate Signature System™—a proven path for those ready to approach relationships with greater clarity, confidence, and intention.
Her work has been featured across national media and she works privately with clients around the world. She is happily married and resides with her husband in the San Francisco Bay Area.
“Within six weeks of working with Dr. Holly, I met the man of my dreams—everything I had always wanted and more. Today, we’ve been happily partnered for five years, building a beautiful life together. I truly didn’t know love like this was even possible.”
— Abbey T., Business OwnerYOUR INVESTMENT
Private VIP Day
A private Napa Valley experience for those ready to approach love with greater clarity, discernment, and support. Hosted at Milliken Creek Inn—an intentionally quiet, private setting chosen to support the depth and spaciousness of this work.
$6,500
Because of the secluded nature required for this experience, clients reserve an overnight stay directly with the property or through our preferred travel concierge.
A limited number of Intensives are offered each season.
Love is too important to leave to chance.
Few decisions influence the quality of your life more than who you choose to share it with.
And often, the wisest path forward is not navigating it alone,
But with a trusted advisor to guide you along your journey.
If you feel ready for thoughtful guidance, meaningful clarity, and a deeply personalized experience devoted entirely to your love life—
I would be honored to spend the day with you.